They are different
- Devita Sari
- Sep 12, 2017
- 3 min read

Before I write, let me make a declaration that this article is my opinion only. My opinion was formed by what my friend (Neng Lina) talk to me and my opinion was validated with two my friend others (Ahdina Karima and Khaerunnisa Anbar). So, if you ever study statistic, you will understand that my opinion is very very very far from valid. Take it easy. What is actually topic that will I write? Yeah I will share my opinion about guys in my major and other major. Let me minimize the topic, guys in my major and other major that the population of men is more. Don't think deeply. hahaha. Sometimes in the boarding house, I talk to my friend "Why many guys in our school very not sensitive? Let me give you two examples. 1. I have many boy friends (read: not special boyfriends) in the campus from several majors from the organisation that I follow. When I back to the boarding house in the evening, he (Some one from major that the men population more than women population, machine engineering) always try to accompany me even though him boarding house is not in the same way. He always makes effort. Sometimes, because I feel pity for him (I know they also tired) and reject him to accompany me, he still follows me from behind. Or If he really can't accompany me, he will apologize earnestly. Do this happens just to me? No.. I ever asked my girl friend and She said that her boy friend in the same case also did that (the major is different from the guy that accompany me, but the case is same). 2. When I take 'sit in class' from geology which is the population of men also high, I see nice moment. The girl late to came to the class. Because it is the first meeting, there is less seat. So, the girl takes a chair from other room. And the lecture said 'Are you boy if you let the girl take the chair by herself?' This moment never happens in my major hahaha..." My friend answered me,"It's true. When I did my internship, I must give eat for shrimp in the late night in the pool. I ever asked my boy friend to accompany me, but he refused. He tells me that he is sleepy. Surprisingly, when I came back, he still awake and just playing a game. OMG!" I am sorry about that, dear...
3. I ever went from my campus at around 1 am, and I just did it with my self (Oh no, actually with security hahaha) even though there are several guys that also sleep in campus that day. And this phenomenon is a usual phenomenon in my society major.
4. When I attended a workshop far away from campus, I went there with my boyfriend from geology. And there, I meet my girl friend from machine engineering that was be general secret, the majority is men. Do you know what my girl friend tell to my boyfriend that accompanied me? She said to him to take care of me. Please, this is not kind of bitchy or cheesy thing. It kind of attitude or may be culture.
and many more phenomenon that I can't tell you alllll.
I mean here that this is not always associate with love or obligation(?), like a thing to do for a girl, because, I understand we responsible for our self and not to depend to the others to much. I also understand that this characteristic can't be generalization. This is just a compilation story based on what happened to me and girl friends around me. Hmmm.. OR MAY BE, for beautiful girl, this is an exception. Hahahha...
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